Sunday, March 5, 2017

Seeking The Good Life

Sunday, March 5, 2017

One thing that has held me back from the blog is knowing who the audience is.  I think I want to just write for my kids.  They’re the reason I got caught in the vine in the first place, after all.  Ok, ok, that’s not true… I can’t blame them for our decision about where to live.  But they are the two people on the planet I care most about reaching.  So here we go again…

I realized yet again yesterday that I’m living too much of my life in a self-inflicted virtual hell.  ACK!  Perhaps I’ve had a little bit of help from the algorithms that load my Facebook feed and such, but mostly, I’ve been doing it to myself.  This insight came after listening to an Ezra Klein Show interview with historian and author Yuval Harari (Sapiens, Homo Deus: a Brief History of Tomorrow), about a wide range of topics, from how we treat animals to how AI will likely treat humans in the future (e.g., without feeling).  They talked about the evolution of human economic activity from hunter-gatherers to agrarians to a mechanized system to the service industrial complex.  What’s next is the era of data, connectivity, and AI, which all come with a big test of our species’ ability to adapt well in evolutionary terms.  My current level of optimism says we’ll probably just decline and head toward “Idiocracy” but anyway… the conversation between Harari and Klein was just fascinating.  I wish, as I so often do, that I had someone to share and process it with.

The future as Harari sees it (disclaimer:  all from my faulty memory, and my impressions are intertwined here; any mistakes in representation of his view and the conversation are honest ones) say 300 years from now, involves co-operative artificial intelligence (think self-driving transport networks, delivery of medical diagnoses and knowledge globally connected) playing a central role in solving problems, doing everyday tasks, and running the world’s economy.  The challenge for humans will be to create a way of life that adapts in meaningful ways as we get there.  The challenge of our time and the next perhaps then will be to think big… for the average American to be open to the idea of a universal basic income, a strong social safety net, and lots of leisure.  Hard to imagine people embracing this, based on society as we know it, but when you think about it, it’s actually hard to imagine people NOT embracing such a better life!  I mean logically, don’t we all want a shorter work week with a better quality of life?  More time for family and hobbies?  Personally, I think maybe the biggest challenge is in how to get from here to there.

This is something I’ve puzzled about for years.  Since we have indoor plumbing, washing machines and Amazon, why don’t’ we have more free time?  It’s not hard to imagine that many things that many people do for work today will be better done by machines and/or automated, integrated systems in the future.  Sure, there will still be people doing jobs.  We will need software engineers and yoga instructors.  We are going to need philosophers to help us figure out the meaning of our existence when we don’t have to work so hard.  What is important for a good life? 

One direction some may go, and may already be going, as time becomes more available is to use the extra time we have to just check out, for example by entering the gaming or VR realm, smoking a lot of weed or doing opiods… spending more time away from the here and now, in places like the news cycle or social media, rather than in actual their own personal development or human interaction.  He talks about religion as a form of Virtual Reality that has served our species for a long time…it’s a place where, depending on where you enter, the rules help you to make sense of the world and know your place in it.  In the same way, we use social media &/or the news cycle to do that now (my ACK realization), or gaming and/or VR to create our own realities.

That podcast was what got me to realize the self-inflicted nature of the trap I have set for myself, and the change in direction that I want to take.  That, and looking at pictures over the past couple of days… seeing that it was only a few years ago when our kids were growing up we didn’t have cell phones or wifi in our lives.  Thank goodness the kids had their childhood.  I know that tech isn’t going anywhere, but I earnestly want to try and keep it more in its place from now on, in the background of my life instead of the automatic extension of me that connectedness is now.  Do I sound 90 yet?!


My goal now is to unplug as much as possible without hurting work.  Keep building and reframing my tribe, my time, my play, my work around a more “here and now” existence.  Carli comes to mind as inspiration here.  She hasn’t really been into technology much as she has matured.  I see her bare feet, a flower in her hair, and hands in the soil on a sunny day. Butterflies, the sparkle of light on water…mindful meditations… tea and conversation, let these be my new addictions.  Good life, here I come!

Thursday, January 19, 2017

This year is gonna suck

Jan 19, 2017

This is not how I thought my blogging adventures would go.  

About 6 weeks before the 2016 US election, I got caught up in the presidential race news cycle.  I couldn't tear myself away, and gave in to the temptations of the gutter that became the lead up to November 9, 2016.  Then Trump got elected and the nightmare began.

I've been caught up in thinking and talking about politics and public policy, and it’s like an addiction now.  I’m doing my part in calling my members of Congress, educating myself, showing up, helping to organize others…but I have lost my creative impetus in all of this, and my ability to focus on work for a few measly hours a week.  It’s pathetic. 

Donald Fucking Trump is ruining my life.  Tomorrow that treacherous, misogynistic, racist narcissist psychopath will be inaugurated, and soon his nightmare of a cabinet will be approved by the 51 Republicans in the Senate.  What a bunch of greedy cowards.  When did greed become the #1 American creed? 

It feels like the end of days.  I have to unplug and get on with my life.  After the Women’s March on Saturday, I will seriously stop reading and listening to the news, and get back on track with my own goals.  Otherwise, the terrorists have won.

The planet is so screwed, it makes the imminent demise of the democracy seem insignificant.

Sunday, January 1, 2017

Instructions for an Organized Resistance to Trump

Instructions for an Organized Resistance to Trump

Preamble

“Hope for the best, plan for the worst.”

·      We accept this reality:  Explicit, consistent Republican oppositionalism since 2008 worked.  Refusing to work with President Obama did not hurt the Republican Party.  They blamed Obama and “The Liberals” for every bad thing, real or imagined, and it worked, in combination with Trumpmania.

·      We, progressives and liberals, have limited representation in Congress. This means that the populace must play the role of opposition. We should continue to try and exert influence within the Democratic Party, but we can’t count on the party to mobilize the grass roots.  We, the people, in large numbers, will need to visibly, vocally, peacefully, but forcefully plan to oppose, obstruct, and delay president-elect Trump at every possible turn.  If we can play a role in preventing his inauguration, we should do so.  There’s power in numbers.

“When it comes to politics, leaders don’t lead. They follow.” --Nicole Capretz.

·      We, the Left, will resist the temptation to continue our thorough, thoughtful analyses, and seek to avoid infighting.  We may disagree about but some things, but we should agree to accept our differences in order to be effective in pulling hard in the same direction. Kumbaya time will come later, and what a party it will be!  But now is the time to organize, focus, and to act. 

·      We must be ever-mindful of why we are here. Given Trump’s relationship to a foreign power determined to undermine US elections, relationship to women and people of color, his mental instability, perpetual lies, hate speech, terrifying leadership appointments, Twitter account, and so on, it is crystal clear that Donald J. Trump is a dangerous threat to humanitarian and American values (e.g., free speech, free press, women’s equality, the right to vote), to the Democracy itself, to a peaceful world order, and to the very planet we inhabit.  The stakes are high, and the moments historic.

“Why be sad when you can be mad?”  -- Lita Robinow

GET READY!

1.     Prepare to change your behavior. 

Changing one’s behavior is extremely difficult.  That’s a fact.  The self-help industry and some forms of therapy exist because of this basic fact.  (For example, intending to exercise, floss, get more sleep are promises many people make to themselves and promptly break, every single day.)

So if you want to make a difference, to ACT as part of the resistance to the tyranny that is Trump, you’re going to have to do some things that are different from the things you’ve been doing habitually. That is, you’re going to have to change in some small way(s).

If you want more info about preparation for change, you can read this:  https://www.verywell.com/the-stages-of-change-2794868 &/or listen to some Ted Talks about goal-setting, like Tony Robbins: https://www.ted.com/talks/tony_robbins_asks_why_we_do_what_we_do

2.    Plan to change your schedule

Seriously consider how much time you want to give to the cause.  Is it 10 minutes a day?  Ten minutes a week?  Ten minutes a month?  No one is judging you, except you.  We’re all busy.  Decide how much time and commitment is reasonable for you.

Next, think about when you will be able work that time for something new into your regular schedule.  What day(s) and time(s) can you set aside for the cause?  Of course there will be events and occasions that demand or invite flexibility in this regard (like the national Womens’ March on Jan 21, 2017).  Once you figure this out, put it on your calendar(s) and treat that time commitment as seriously as you treat work and family.  Activism is just as important as those things.

Finally, always remember The Why.  Write down your reasons, put reminders to self in places you will see them.  Or just read the news to get the latest motivation for action.

3.    A few notes about the emotional side of action

When you follow through on the action of the day/week/month, you are going to feel incredible.  You will think of the millions of people who may benefit when you and others like you are effective.  You will think of the millions who chose not to act, and you will truly feel great about yourself.  When you don’t follow through, you’ll probably feel guilty.  You may feel bad about yourself.  The antidote to the negative inner voice is not excuses, but action.  Give the cause one minute if you can’t do ten.  It actually works!
 
Resistance will not be easy or convenient.  It will be fun sometimes, but not always. But be prepared.  It can be uncomfortable speaking up against hate, or calling your Congress member’s office.  Opportunities to act may come up unexpectedly.  You will have to decide whether you want to (if you’re able) change your schedule to help monitor an election recount, or miss some work or family time to join a group speaking at your Congresswoman’s office. These things will come up, and what you decide to do (even though it’s hassle) or not do (generally the easier route) matters.

“If it’s not fun, people won’t keep doing it.” – Julie Tapp

So when a call for action goes out, please consider it.  Try to make the difficult, inconvenient choices for a while.  What could be a better legacy for the family than the example you will set to make a difference? 


GET SET!!

Bookmark the Congressional website.  https://www.congress.gov

Put your Congressional representatives’ state and DC office phone numbers and email addresses into your phone and contacts.  Look up on congress.gov or here:  https://www.govtrack.us/congress/members/map

Also put in contact info and/or bookmark:
·      Democratic and Republican leaders of House and Senate
·      Democratic National Committee Leaders
·      Congressional Committees that are of highest interest to you https://www.govtrack.us/congress/committees/ 

Warning:  Don’t be shocked by the overwhelming number of white male faces you’ll see on these listings. It’s not news that only 20% of Congress are women, and the same proportion, 20%, are a racial or ethnic minority.


GO!!!

This week’s calls to action:  See above, Get Ready, Get Set, Stay Tuned.

Remember
·      We will always seek to promote effective actions, but there’s no right or wrong answer to the way you chose to act. 
·      Done is better than perfect, and doing something is better than doing nothing.
·      Let's not stop until Trump is diverted from the White House or impeached once there.  #lockhimup